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David
12-03-2007, 04:24 PM
‘Why make an issue of it?’
By Mildred Torres-Ferguson

It is standard practice that immediately following each local election, political parties meet to decide who to support for leadership roles on Meriden’s City Council and Board of Education. Last week the Democrats met in an effort to determine the leadership of the Board of Education.

My support for Mark Hughes for the position Vice President was an effort to provide residents with a smooth transition in the future. Mark is more than qualified for this position. He holds a Masters Degree in Social Work with a specialty in children, adolescence and families. He’s worked directly with children from our community for twenty two years at the YMCA and is currently employed as a high school social worker.

Prior to the nomination process this past summer, I clearly communicated my reasons for this recommendation to not only each Democrat on the board but also to Rob Kosienski. As no opposition was voiced, I brought it to the table again last week. Obviously some board members are now opposed to the change in leadership.

I never assume to have anyone’s support. I explain my reasoning, and those who do not feel I’ve made a valid argument should vote against it. However, as Chairwoman of the Meriden Democratic Town Committee, I will not allow an elected official(s) who runs on the Democratic ticket to say that the party has done nothing for them and they have no obligation to the party. That is simply not true. The Democratic Party works hard for every candidate running on the ticket and this is consistently confirmed by the election results.

Although I stand behind the statement that “No one person is bigger than the party,” I should have phrased it differently. We teach our children that “there is no ‘I’ in team.” Perhaps that would have been a better way to state my position.

The Democratic Party in Meriden is strong because of our common belief in Democratic principles. These principles resonate among our community and although we do not always agree, it is my responsibility as Chairwoman of the Town Committee to defend these principles and the future of our party.

In addition to my role as Chairwoman of the Democratic Town Committee, I am also a mother of three. I would never jeopardize the educational structure of our city.
I have never been a candidate for public office, but I do make phone calls and knock on the doors of voters with many of the candidates. When the topic of Board of Education arises, voters consistently express a need for change in leadership. I attempted to build consensus by putting a Democrat in a future position of leadership, create the change residents asked for and also keep Kosienski in a leadership role by offering the Secretary position. Although it was unsuccessful, it is important to note that party leaders have always been involved in these decisions.

So, why are some choosing to make an issue of it this year?
On Wednesday I will support whichever leadership team the Board of Education Democrats endorse. Why? Simply because I am part of a team.

Mildred Torres-Ferguson is chairwoman of Meriden’s Democratic Town Committee.

collie
12-03-2007, 04:55 PM
Keep your chin up, Millie - you did the right thing in the first place. Here's something funny I like to say to people who tell you "there's no 'I' in teamwork." Now I'll admit I'm stealing this quote from Tyler Perry - the answer is "there's no 'U' in teamwork either." Sometimes the old there's no "I" in teamwork expression gets used, I think, when someone wants to squelch you. So keep up the good work.

Andy Roberts
12-03-2007, 05:38 PM
Millie Toress Ferguson writes a nice letter. But why didn't she ever state that she wanted to keep Kosienski in leadership before? I applaud her efforts, maybe Mr. Kosienski will agree to being secretary of the Bd of Ed, and let Mr. Hughes be VP. Did anyone ask him?

Equality
12-03-2007, 11:00 PM
Meriden Communities are diverse, that's a sign of changing times. Women are registered voters, working non traditional jobs; this is a sign of changing times. There are more opportunities for people of color and those with disabilities to go to college and enter the workforce competitively; this is also a time of changing times. With that being said, it is time for new people at the helm of the City of Meriden Board of Education, changing leadership to a person(s) that is more inclusive in meeting the needs of Meriden students.

I do not personally know Frank Kogut, but if "not" being a team player and implementing policy that is “not” in the best interest of "all" students is a pre-requisite for president of the Meriden Board of education then it is of no wonder that we were COURT ordered to implement a breakfast program to help support children to thrive toward academic success.

The gap that divides Meriden communities is widening under Frank Kogut’s watch. One must ask the question “who is holding Mr. Kogut accountable for his actions and decisions”. Based on my experience with the Board of Education, parent voices of concern seem to fall on deaf ears w/ Frank Kogut at the helm. He has served his time, some say well, and its time for the Meriden Board of Education to work more closely with communities because it’s not their job alone to educate our children, it’s a partnership between schools and the community.

In closing, I say change the Board of Education president and vice-president so that the community can work with them and hold them accountable with the other members to strive toward making Meriden public school great schools.

Great schools can be accomplished with a team work approach. Mr. Suzio was quoted in the Record Journal article dated 12-3-07 as stating “I'm listening to what people have to say at this point in time," Suzio said. "I'm going to vote for the best person for the job ...

Let’s ask the people. Just like the candidates communicated with communities before Election Day. The same type of effort and approach should be made to have a more public input to this election process instead of a select few. After all, the people at the helm of our Meriden education system are the ones implementing policy that will help shape our future leaders and tax base and they should be thinking of educating 'all" children to meet the need of Connecticut’s/Meriden economic future. We should not take that type of responsibility lightly. :)

Fit 2 Print
12-04-2007, 04:36 PM
Just curious . . . who thinks it's time for Frank Kogut to step down?

Andy Roberts
12-04-2007, 04:50 PM
I would give this answer, Mark Hughes isn't ready to take on being President. He's still way too inexperienced. Same with Cardona, Bruenn, Lineen, and Sokol. Mr. Kosienski, Suzio and Hozebin are Republicans...so, Mr. Kogut should stay where he is.

Equality
12-04-2007, 08:45 PM
Communities have to choose between Mr. Huges & Mr. Kogut.

My way or no way (Mr. Kogut) versus minimal president experience (Mr. Huges). I would take minimal experience with strong supportive colleagues any day. At least the children and families that attend Meriden public schools will be treated with respect thus promoting a team work approach to educating our children.

Mr. Kogut believes in educating a select few when it comes to educating Meriden's children. Just check his record and his behavior toward parents, the same parents who have children in the Meriden school system.

Parents that are active in a Childs education foster positive educational experiences for children and schools.

Hello??? Mr. Kogut, alienating families, and all children are bad unless I state other wise mentality is a poor leadership quality and has no place in an educational setting such as PRESIDENT of the Board of Education.

One might question Mr. Huges experience, but if the Meriden Board of Education agrees to work together toward educating all of Meriden Children and Mr. Huges comes with a open mind and a willingness to work in partnership with community, his legacy can be just as long as Mr. Kogut, as long as he doesn't behave like Mr. Kogut.

On a good note, maybe you meant well Mr. Kogut, but people are not satisfied with your leadership. Resign or lose gracefully and enjoy your holiday season.

Andy Roberts
12-04-2007, 11:54 PM
Well it does look like Mr. Hughes will be the President of the Board of Education. So, Congratulations to Mr. Hughes. Now, the bigger picture, how will this newly elected Vice President Suzio perform? Will he continue to be the "No" vote? Now that he has become part of the Democratic team? So, who is the real Republican now that Suzio has turned to the Dems?
Mr. Hozebin and Mr. Kosienski are to be congratulated for sticking to their guns. Mr. Hughes, Suzio, Bruenn, Lineen and Cardona you have officially ended the "No Politics" on the Board of Education. I hope you are proud.

collie
12-05-2007, 11:42 AM
Len Suzio is finishing up his last two years on the board. He has years of experience and I, on a personal level, deeply appreciated his having made a biannual report of minority teacher and administrator hiring part of the BOE yearly calendar. He has also worked really hard on the budget over the years. Kudos to Suzio! I for one am thrilled to hear of these changes in leadership roles!

Andy Roberts
12-05-2007, 01:12 PM
Now we know that Collie is Colleen Cyr, the white racist. I would hope that the RJ would no longer publish her prejudice and hatred on this web site.

collie
12-05-2007, 02:29 PM
Your comments directly violate forum rules.

collie
12-05-2007, 04:39 PM
Forum rules include: "Comments unrelated to the topic, potentially libelous statements or damaging innuendo: Such as accusing someone of a crime, defamation of character, or statements harmful to someone's reputatiion." Forum rules also prohibit "personal attacks, insults and harassment."
What the hell does Colleen Cyr have to do with changes in Board of Education leadership and the discussion going on? A few days ago similar comments by Mr. Roberts were removed from the website - hopefully because I complained. This time I printed the comments out and I have complained again. This is the second time you have gone completely off track of the conversation at hand and made slanderous and defaming statements. I consider it harassment. Ninety five percent of the members of this forum use nicknames. I could care less who they "really" are - this is a newspaper forum intended to engender a good discussion. If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen.

jma
12-05-2007, 04:41 PM
Andy Roberts, there is no room in this forum for personal, vicious attacks. If anyone should be removed, it should be you.

CMT
12-05-2007, 05:15 PM
Now we know that Collie is Colleen Cyr, the white racist. I would hope that the RJ would no longer publish her prejudice and hatred on this web site.

This is exactly the kind of libelous personal attack that will not be tolerated here.
Goodbye, Mr. Roberts. http://www.ziplink.net/~ctroiane/pics/smiles/sadwave.gif

Tino3
12-05-2007, 05:58 PM
Andy, How sad that you have to stoop to such name calling. You have the right to say what you think and believe just as Collie does. I hope that the RJ forum administrator finds your name calling inappropriate.

jma
12-05-2007, 06:09 PM
Thank you Chris!

Fit 2 Print
12-06-2007, 11:39 AM
Let's use this forum as adults. It's a special "place" where ideas may be freely shared but without malice or name-calling.
I, for one, enjoy being part of it.